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2011年3月4日星期五

受住亲情的那一刹那 =)

也许你不知道…你的做法是不被认同的…
“世上只有妈妈好”这句话,这7个字,说得没错… 但亲爱的妈妈们,你们知道孩子们在想什么吗?
some mother just do all the best for her children , but.. did you know their feelings?
actually , may be some of your action just make your children dislike ur loving and care for them..
孩子们打从一出世就特别依赖妈妈,也许是因为出世前都在母体里,不是在父体里…所以跟妈妈比较亲…他们尊重妈妈,所以有什么负面的感受都不会去跟妈妈坦白…(当然这不是每个家庭都会有这种情况-----孩子不喜欢妈妈的某个行动,举止)

我虽然没遇过这种问题,也不可能会遇到这种事情,但是,我身边有不少的朋友遇到这问题,他们都不想跟妈妈坦白,我觉得这是因为担心他们自己伤害了伟大的妈妈…

In my opinion , I suggest all of you tell your mother or parents the mistake thay did.. If you didn't tell them the truth , may be u will more dislike ur mum or started to stay away from her or whatelse... So , I prefer you all to say out the truth.. With this will make the situation much better.. Is't real..

Im a girl that live with daddy and my mum had passed away when Im 14 years old.. I believe that ppl who know me sure know about his.. Still remember that night , I quarred with my dad..至于为了什么争吵我就不方便说了…然后,我把我一些些的感受告诉了他… From that day onwards , he had change…他更加的疼爱我们…

会在这里分享这些是想让有遇到这些问题的你们别因为小小的误会,小小的事情而让你们之间的亲情更加的疏远… try to be frank to ur mother / parents / children.. It will make you more comfortable... trust me =')

3 条评论:

  1. 不是每个家长讲了就会听...或许他们认为孩子本来就要听他们的话.你说他代表你顶嘴..不尊敬他..
    有时候觉得做人很难.超级的难..不懂到底要做什么事情才能让他们开心..我很不明白..还好我还有一个疼我的爸爸..让我觉得留在家里还有存在感..我妈妈没有不好..就像你说的..我很喜欢我的妈妈.可是我妈妈不认同我一向来的做法..不让我给意见.又能如何?
    唉~家家有本难念的经..

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  2. Ldr,dun be sad,be smile and happy to face everday.All will pass.

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